{"id":4386,"date":"2020-07-22T00:12:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T00:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/?p=4386"},"modified":"2020-07-22T00:13:44","modified_gmt":"2020-07-22T00:13:44","slug":"tegurlah-orang-yang-tepat-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/?p=4386","title":{"rendered":"Tegurlah Orang Yang Tepat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DI 22072020<\/p>\n<p>Amsal 9:8<br \/>\nReprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jangan mencela seorang pencemooh, jangan sampai dia membencimu, tegurlah seorang yang bijak, dan dia ajan mengasihimu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Teguran hrs disampaikan pd org yg melakukan kesalahan atau bertindak melanggar aturan yg ada, namun kita hrs paham bhw cara kita menegur setiap org ternyata tdklah sama.<\/p>\n<p>Respon dr org yg kita tegur itu ada yg positif krna dia org yg bijak dan ada yg negatif krna dia seorg pencemooh. Jd tdk semua org bersedia utk ditegur, ada yg sok pintar, merasa dirinya paling benar atau sengaja mencari gara-gara. Ayat ini mengajar kita utk bersikap berhati-hati terhadap seorg pencemooh ketika kita ingin menegurnya. Cukup tegur scra singkat dan jelas, tak perlu adu argumen krna mrka memang jenis org yg tdk suka dibantah dan mau benar sndri. Jd intinya jgn berlama-lama bcra dg mrka, krna ujungnya malah bs terjd pertengkaran dan dia membenci kita dan pastinya menganggap kita spt musuh, bs saja dia akan merencanakan yg jahat terhadap kita.<\/p>\n<p>Tegurlah org yg bijak, krna org bijak bkn berarti tanpa kelemahan dan mustahil berbuat salah, mrka bs saja salah dan kita perlu menegur mrka. Org bijak menyediakan telinga utk mendengar perkataan org lain, jd dia dengarkan dulu baru dipikir dan memberikan respon. Seorg pencemooh tdk mau menggunakan pikirannya tp lebih mengedepankan emosinya. Org bijak bs menahan emosi dan berpikir jernih dan terbuka. Dia akan merasa sangat senang ketika ditegur dan malah bersyukur bhw Tuhan memakai org lain utk memberinya peringatan dan menyatakan kesalahannya. Responnya positif, dan dia akan tetap mengasihi org yg menegurnya.<\/p>\n<p>Termasuk yg mana kita ini: pencemooh atau org bijak? Terimalah teguran yg memang benar dan kasihilah org-org yg memperhatikan dan menegur kita.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DI 22072020 Amsal 9:8 Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee. Jangan mencela seorang pencemooh, jangan sampai dia membencimu, tegurlah seorang yang bijak, dan dia ajan mengasihimu. Teguran hrs disampaikan &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/?p=4386\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4386","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-renungan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4386","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4386"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4386\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4387,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4386\/revisions\/4387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4386"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4386"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kodansays.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4386"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}